It can often be very difficult to find the right flirt coach or dating coach for you and therefore I would like to tell you in this article what are the most important characteristics in my opinion when choosing a coach.
Flirt coach or dating coach – the top 5 characteristics of a top coach, how you choose him and who is the BEST coach!
It can often be very difficult to find the right flirt coach or dating coach for you and therefore I would like to tell you in this article what are the most important characteristics in my opinion when choosing a coach and who I think is the BEST coach.
I have been dealing with dating psychology between men and women for almost 15 years now
In a nutshell: I’ve been dealing with dating psychology between men and women for almost 15 years – almost 300,000 men are now registered in the dating psychology newsletter alone – you have to imagine the number is so large, that’s more than at practically all other Flirt & Dating coaches in the whole of world together.
My videos alone have almost 40 million views – 10 million of them on YouTube alone and I talked to thousands of attractive women to find out how women think and what they really want from a man.
These numbers honor me, of course, and I’m really happy about all the letters I get regularly.
So let’s start with the 5 most important features of a top flirt coach – the most important as always at the end:
Flirt coach property number 1: He wholeheartedly wants only the best for you
A good dating coach should put your wellbeing above his own. Therefore he should never say that you should only learn from him and no one else.
The truth is:
- You can only achieve true mastery in one area if you learn not only from ONE mentor or coach, but from as many as possible.
- It is important that you choose one, learn everything from it and take it with you and then, when you can do everything and just know, go to the next flirt coach.
- Because the way is the goal, what doesn’t grow that dies and if you ever stop getting better at something it means that your skills will rust and get worse!
- So it’s not about finding out who is the best dating coach – no one can measure that and is always subjective, it’s about you taking the BEST from everyone and being constantly open to learning new things.
- This is the only way to achieve true mastery – in all areas of your life – not just with women.
Flirt coach property # 2: He MUST take responsibility for your results
If you get all the courses, seminars & coachings that a flirt coach recommends to help you achieve your personal goals in dealing with women – that is, get lots of beautiful women and find your dream woman – and it doesn’t work, whose fault is it?
I think it’s the coach’s fault, not yours!
A coach should take RESPONSIBILITY for achieving the goal you want, as long as you do your part and do what he tells you, it is his job to ensure that you achieve your goal!
Flirt coach property no. 3: He has to be able to explain EXTREMELY well
Just because someone is good with women doesn’t mean that they can show you how to get good with women.
Most of the men I met who were naturally good with women didn’t know why they were and the only tips I ever got from them were things like:
“Yes, just be relaxed then it will work by itself.”
If the coach cannot explain the psychological concepts and backgrounds to you, if it does not immediately click in your head when he explains something to you, then he is simply not a good coach.
Flirt-Coach Trait No. 4: He must have reached the goal himself
I have to laugh again and again when I see that someone wants to show men how to find their absolute dream woman without having made it themselves.
I have been completely happily married for 3 years and with my absolute dream wife – she was one of 5 friends and 3 affairs I had in parallel at the time and she knew it.
Today we are completely happy, if she were not so shy I would take her to the camera more often and we are expecting our first child – so I will actually become a father 🙂
The point is:
Especially as a coach, you shouldn’t have to walk around the area all your life and address women – otherwise something is going completely wrong.
Your goal is to get women until you find your DREAMWOMAN and keep them forever, not still walking around at 50 years old and talking to women.
Addressing women is only a MEDIUM to get to know a few women at first, but shortly afterwards you should be introduced to so many automatically and you should have such a great life that you hardly need it anymore!
Because how should someone who could not find his dream woman himself and not have a happy and fulfilled relationship teach you how YOU find your dream woman?
The truth is: he can’t. Because if he couldn’t do it himself, he won’t be able to teach you either.
Flirt-Coach Trait No. 5: A good coach does not focus on YOU but you
I never wanted to show how good I am at getting women to bed – because the ONLY thing I am concerned with is YOU.
My goal is not to be the coach who gets more women to bed than anyone else – my goal is to be the coach who brings you more women to bed and a relationship than anyone else.